Wednesday, February 28, 2018

Saying goodbye to a dear friend


We got word today that our dear friend Sue Adams died yesterday.  About two weeks ago she posted on FB that the doctors had informed her that her last round of chemo had not worked.  She chose to go home to hospice care, and yesterday morning, with her family around her, she left this earthly vale.

Sue was a good friend.  They moved away quite a few years ago, but we stayed in touch with Christmas cards and she came back to Monrovia often.  Her daughter Emily was a good friend of Phoebe's, so we were often in touch with her.

With the advent of social media, seems like I could see Sue and her happy life in living color frequently enough that I felt like she was still just around the corner.

When we first moved to Monrovia, I wasn't very happy about being here.  I made friends in the ward and got involved and all seemed to be well.   Then they shuffled the ward boundaries and a few of us were sent to the Monrovia East Ward.  I was aghast - what would I do now?

One of the first people to come and see me was Sue Adams!  She was friendly and cheerful - you could not be gloomy in her presence. I knew it would be all right in this new ward.

There was a brief period of time when we walked together. I enjoyed getting to know her better. The ward was very social, and we interacted frequently. When they moved away, I was sad indeed.

When I fell in Albertson's and cracked three ribs, I was given a settlement.  I decided to use part of it to buy a Bosch mixer - something I had coveted.  Sue was a dealer and I got one from her.  It was fun to have her come and show me how to use it - and when I use it, I think of her.

When I walk in the mornings, I go past the house they used to live in.  In all these years, it has not changed.  I like that aspect - it means when I go by, I can think of Sue and remember all the good times.

Goodbye sweet Sue - heaven is a little brighter today - and the light here is a little dimmer.  

Godspeed!

Friday, February 23, 2018

Missing Ry!


February 22nd is Ry Nebeker's birthday. Ry has been gone for 3 years now - we miss him still. He was pretty much always "larger than life" and so his absence seems to stand out.

In 1990 and 1992, we camped in Ashland OR with the Nebekers  - it was a lot of fun - we still share the memories.

Thankfully his paintings and prints are all over our house, so he's always with us!

Tuesday, February 20, 2018

Happy Birthday David!


David tends to hide or be difficult when I try to snap a photo of him - so I don't have a whole lot of great photos of him.

This one is him putting away chairs at Harry and Dawn's wedding reception in 2000.  That's Aulvie Bourgeous helping him.  We all love Aulvie Bourgeous - and we love David too!
 

David and Phoebe are the perfect pair - we didn't know him until after they had decided to get married - but we trusted her judgment.

Over the years, we have had the chance to have our relationship grow and develop - and we are really glad Phoebe found David.

Happy Day David - may the force be with you!! lol

Sweet 16!


How can this sweetheart of a young woman be 16?  Old enough to drive and date? 

A fave photo of mine - captures the essence of Esme!

Looking forward to our Grandma's Bday weekend - it's always fun with Esme!!

Sweet 16 wishes for you all year long!!

Friday, February 02, 2018

Happy Birthday Pop!


Today is Grandpa Terrill's 102nd birthday - and I recall a birthday celebration for him almost 40 years ago, right after we moved her from Utah.
 

I made him a wool shirt - just like the shirt I'd made for Dad a few years earlier.
 

Harry insisted that I needed to make it large - but it was too large.  It was going to be quite a job to take it in.  I think we ended up giving it to Ernie, because it fit Ernie.

But Grandpa was very gracious - I know he appreciated the thought and the effort.

Always a gentleman!!