Tuesday, July 31, 2007

1974 - the "7 Year Itch!"

As I have mentioned before, my memory is pretty hazy about some things - like dates! And I have been notorious over the years about not putting dates on the back of photos. So I have to look for clues that tell me when a picture was taken. (If you find errors, feel free to comment and set the record straight. Otherwise, my "revisionist" history will go forth!)

I know for a fact that Betsy was born in 1973, so this would have been her first birthday - since she doesn't look like a two-year old! And our birthdays are a day apart, so sometimes we celebrated together! (Like this time, in the Bountiful Park - the one by the pool.) And do you recognize that table cloth?? I still have it!!


When I asked Dad what was significant about 1974, he said, "Well, that's the year I went into business for myself." I don't have any photos of him on the job site, so this photo of him with our Model A will have to do. We hauled that around for years!! I don't think we ever drove it anywhere. We towed it home from Hyrum, Utah when I was pregnant with Bonny - boy, now that's a story too! One we tell when we're driving around Logan! Or when we meet someone from Logan!


Richard came home from his mission in 1974 and stopped off in SLC to see us - this is the back stoop of the famous Rock House in Centerville. Orignally, the house had included a barbershop - and this was the door people used to go to it. We used it as a T.V. room.

I'm thinking this was at Alice's house, because I don't recognize the bedspread.


I'm pretty sure this family shot is early 1974 - if not, it's close. I was into matching dresses. I actually made Harry a romper out of the same material and it was really cute, but everyone thought he was a girl when he wore it! So instead he has his very cool faux-leisure suit - at least it was corduroy and not polyester - but it did have bell bottom pants!


Now here's some real polyester - Bonny's leisure suit was made by Grandma Clayton, and inspite of the look on her face, she really enjoyed wearing it. Harry had a shirt to match Dad's - and Grandma Clayton had made those too. You all recognize the couch! and my shirt was one I bought in France when I went to school there - I would wear it and feel continental!

It would have been summer when we visited - and this may not even be 1974, but it's one of my fav shots of Bonny and Dad.

Doesn't this shot of Pop and little Harry make you think of Porter??

This makes me think of Porter too!

I hesitate to start including cousins for fear I will slight someone by leaving them out - but if I remember it and I have a picture I can find, I will probably include it! (so if you want to be included in this "history" send me a date and a photo!)

This is Grandma Clayton with baby Michael - we visited with them when we came down that summer in 1974.

This 4 generation shot has been published before, but it bears repeating. My goodness but we all look so young!


I think this is someone's birthday - maybe Harry's - Alice was pregnant with Erika. Notice the bib on Bonny!! And I seem to wear my French shirt a lot!

Another family group shot in 1974 with Alice, Dale, Betsy, Lyn, Rose Ann, Chris, me, Bonny and Harry. Lyn always seemed to be wearing a cowboy hat then.

Christmas in the Rock House was fun - it looks like Erika has been born in this shot!


I baby sat twin boys - they came after school - it was a sweet deal - they played with the kids and I got paid!

1974 was/is a blur. Dad worked long hours. And he was in the Elder's Quorum presidency. I was the assistant librarian - mostly went to Primary and put together lesson packets - and Jr. Sunday School - back in the day.

The kids and I played and read and watched Mr. Rogers, The Electric Company and Sesame Street. When they napped, I would call Alice, and we'd do our chores and visit. Fortunately for us, even though we were 45 miles apart, it wasn't long distance to call - you young folks maybe can't appreciate that, but it was pretty significant - we often talked daily.

I used some of my babysitting money to buy the first of the 3 Viking sewing machines I have owned. And I took up sewing - it was a wonderful outlet for me. I had never thought I was a seamstress, so discovering that I could indeed make things was a real "shot in the arm." Most of the clothes Bonny and Harry are wearing - and even some of the ones I am wearing - in these pictures were made by me.

I had 14 chickens too. They laid a dozen eggs a day and I had 6 customers - one lady wanted all the brown ones for her dozen. I charged 50 cents a dozen - made enough to pay for the feed. And I had a dozen eggs a week for me. It was a nice little "cottage" industry.

And when I told Dad about the "7 Year Itch" he said he'd never heard of it. Am I the only one who knows about it? They even made a movie with that title.

But we weren't itching - we were happy together. It seems almost storybook like in retrospect, but I know there were problems - like rats in the garage, spiders everywhere else, snakes in the basement, ants all over and mold on the walls in the winter. And when we moved out, it turned out that there were bats in the attic!

Still, the memories are mostly good.


Big #3

Happy birthday to Annika Joy today!

I remember when she was born (on Harry Potter's birthday...and Ara's half-birthday) and went without a name for a few days, so Hannah called her She-Who-Must-Not-Be-Named.

That was funny.

Matt and I were in DC at the time, so unfortunately we missed out on seeing her as a teeny baby, but we did see her at her blessing. And we lived in Utah after that, and got our share of visits from the Bolanders, so we saw her and her sisters--4 of our favorite girls--fairly often.

One of my favorite memories of Annika was when Matt and I babysat her one time when B&B&co were in Utah for a funeral. She was probably about 1 then. She was a little bit sad so we took her for a walk in her stroller. Still sad...until I gave her a banana. She clutched onto that thing for dear life and fell asleep in the stroller holding it like it was a little doll. She didn't let go until she woke up an hour or so later in a much happier mood, at which point she did eat the banana. We didn't have a camera then, so I don't have a picture. But trust me, it was very cute.

Have a good day, Annika! Theo will be thinking of you and wishing he had you around to give him all the "mimis" he can handle.

Sunday, July 29, 2007

Late-breaking News from the Malibu Front!

The big news item was Bruce's call as the new bishop of the Pacific Palisades Ward - which makes Bonny the Bishop's Wife! (Bishop Bruce Bolander certainly has a nice alliterative ring to it!) The meeting and the setting apart were great - there was a wonderful spirit there. The stake president quoted 1 Timothy Chapter 3, starting with verse 2 and we had a few chuckles! (My favorite was "the husband of one wife.")


We had a family birthday celebration for Annika - who will be 3 on Tuesday - along with Harry Potter!

Aunt Donna and the birthday girl.

The Cousin Karls supervises the gift opening.


Dad and I enjoyed being together again after 2 weeks apart.


Ara finished the scarf she was making for Esme - she is quite the needle-woman!

Jinny and Jeff were there for the festivities also.

Grandma Mary and Grandma Helen both came.


Noah did some reading on Walt Disney while waiting for lunch.

Aunt Mary and Ella enjoy the gift opening.


Dad and Bruce had some "Bishop's talk!"



Friday, July 27, 2007

Families Can Be Together Forever

I'm still here in Oregon with Phoebe and family, and Dad called and told me that Jim had died this afternoon at about 2:30 Utah time.
The news was not surprising or unexpected, but that did not lessen the degree of sorrow that I know we all feel.
The above photo was taken last fall in Logan when Dad went to run the Top O' Utah Marathon. It was a fun trip - we visited with Jim and Trudy and saw their new home. They were pretty enthusiastic about the new chapter in their lives that their recent move had opened up for them.
Now there is another new chapter - for Jim and for his family. Hopefully a review of all the previous chapters will help everyone focus on sweet memories, gospel principles of hope and faith, and the promise of a happy ending in the future.
Gratefully, we all know that families can indeed be together forever.
(Jim's funeral services are Friday at 3 p.m. in Benson, Utah. Dad and I will be going up with Grandma Terrill, probably on Thursday night. We plan to return Saturday morning, and we also plan to attend the Clayton Reunion that day.)

Thursday, July 26, 2007

More pics

About a million years later, here are the rest of the pics from Gary's blessing!

BriAnna and Scott


Flyburger anyone? Should I become a food photographer?


Fred, Paul, Camille, and a couple of BriAnna's sisters and her mom, and Gary. I don't have any pictures of Joan! However, she was indeed there and we had some lovely chats.


Beating the heat inside for a little while . . . although it wasn't too hot, actually. It was what I consider perfect summer weather. Clara and Theo both took naps, which was good. (Theo's was good for me anyway!)


Craig had a little snooze in his wagon.


And the drive home.


All in all a wonderful day!

Wednesday, July 25, 2007

Get A Clue


A couple of Saturdays ago, Aunts Donna and Mary took my older girls to see Nancy Drew.

What a treat.

Annika and I walk around the promenade - checked out the musical acts (of which there are quite a few on the weekend) and the Farmer's Market.




Most Excellent.

Tuesday, July 24, 2007

Life marches on -

Happy Pioneer Day - one and all. David is taking the boys to the Ward 24th Party - Phoebe and I will do something fun!
Henry started soccer camp - comes home tired and needing a shower! Must be having a good time!

Calvin is always ready to help Grandma (except he calls me Grandpa!)


Agnes just gets cuter and cuter!

Phoebe is doing great - and taking it easy - I was telling her that I could enjoy hanging out like this all summer!

My friend Lynn, France/BYU days, came to visit - she lives in Vancouver - we had a great visit!

Sunday, July 22, 2007

Point of View


There is a poem by Carol Lynn Pearson that I have been thinking about - but I'm not at home to look it up - but one of the stanzas says "Birth and death, near and far, it all depends on where you are."

I have been here in Oregon with Phoebe, David and family to welcome new little baby Agnes - "fresh from God" as Charles Dickens put it - and Dad has been in Utah bidding farewell to a beloved brother.

Noah pointed out that we were really on both ends of the spectrum - birth and death, joy and sorrow.

Then Henry was listening to the Lion King soundtrack, and "The Circle of Life" has been running through my mind.

It is a cycle - and it does depend on "where you are" - but as we rejoice in the safe, healthy arrival of precious little Agnes, named for a paternal grandmother of mine who died young, every family prayer includes a solicitation of peace and comfort for Jim and his family.


May we all know and recognize the joy, and when the sorrow comes, may we all be able to remember that it does all depend on where we are. And may we all be in the right place.

A day or two in the life . . .

Harry, Dawn and family sent this gorgeous chenille and flannel blanket - soft and PINK!

Phoebe said, "Take a picture of her closet and call it The Hundred Dresses!" A girl can never have too many cute dresses. (Notice the really cute sailor dress Eliza, Matt and Theo sent - Phoebe already has plans for Henry and Calvin's co-ordinating outfits in the spring!)

Chillin' is what we do best these days! Especially while listening to the lullaby cd Eliza made.

David took the boys to the children's museum and Henry painted his face! The rocker is from David's aunt - it's at least 70 years old - and darling!


Bonny, Bruce and family sent a pink silky - truly luxurious!



Calvin with his silky - not so luxurious, but he loves it still.

Mom and baby snoozing.

Stay tuned!


Saturday, July 21, 2007

Homecoming!!

Momma Phoebe and Baby Agnes get dolled up to go home!!

Mmmm! Homecooked food! (Flowers from Pam and Denny!)


Banner headlines await!


"Pretty in Pink"

Chillin' at home - it's good to be back home!